Questions:
1.
What
are the Pre-Somatoform Risk Behaviors battered women may display? 2.
What are the Fundamental Rights that
battered women often fail to realize they deserve? 3.
What are the elements of psychological
control that can effect you client's decision to leave? 4.
What
are the negative impacts a mental or physical handicap may have upon a battered
woman's decision to leave? 5.
What
are the characteristics of a double-bind relationship that effect the battered
women's decision to leave? 6. The
Anger Letter Exercise may lead to a second letter addressed to whom? 7.
What is a question you might ask a battered
client who feels sorry for her batterer? 8.
What the survival tools can help a
battered woman to deal with her abusive situation? 9.
What are the Road Blocks to be
hurdled before many leave? 10.
What
are the Nurturing Love Basics that may help your battered client release
herself from her Cycle of Addictive Love? 11.
What is the name of the exercise which
instructs the group to reword the negative messages of their batterer? 12.
What are the Balance Tactics you might
consider including in your next session with your battered client? 13.
What are the purposes battered women
often have in taking an Emotional Getaway? 14.
What are the elements of a goal a
battered woman who has left might use for herself? |
Answers: A. Increased batterer control, authority unresponsiveness,
and court leniency
B. Abuser's communication; abuser's purpose;
your happiness; separateness
C. Compartmentalization, repression,
deadening, resigning, projection, and externalization
D. Intense
relationship, conflicting messages, inability to clarify, and prohibition from
escape
E. Right to freedom of speech, right to spend money, right
to take time, right to feel, and the right to chose what to do
F. Recognize
signals of escalating danger, avoid him if signal occurs, deescalate the situation,
or escape the situation
G. Sexual dominance, social isolation,
social humiliation, and charming exterior
H. Self delusions about
leaving, fear, and loss of financial stability
I. Allow room for
failure, be responsible only for your part, start small, think about success
J.
The battered woman who is angry at herself
K. Love is not a
prison, evaluate the relationship on all levels, discover irrationality and disillusionment
of feelings, and strive to attain nurturing love.
L. Protection
from more abuse, protection of their image, and denying the abuse
M.
When you add it all up, is there hope?
N. Rejecting Negative Messages
Exercise |