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Section
12
Track #12 - Barriers to Treatment:
Countertransference &
the Client's Salient Issues
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On the last track I provided you with an Inner Child
Visualization. On this track, we will look at countertransference, and the use
of a Losses and Gains exercise.
Do you find that you have
preconceived ideas or reactions that come to mind when dealing with a particular
client? If you are like I am, you do. As you may be aware, there are two different
ways of viewing countertransference. The narrow definition refers to your reaction
to the client's issues that has been generated by your own internal conflict or
problems. This of course, interferes with keeping the therapeutic process neutral.
The second broad definition means any emotional reaction on your part to the client's
issues regardless of any personal conflict the material may or may not invoke.
As you know, countertransference can be a potential landmine,
if you as the therapist aren't aware or in touch with your own hot buttons. I
have found my reaction can be a valuable tool for the understanding of my client,
if I am aware of three self talk messages: #1 my unresolved past issues, #2 the
client's transferred issues, and #3 feelings that are being induced or created
in me by my client. These feelings, negative or positive, offer me insight into
potential responses I can give to the client. A good example is found in Cassie,
age 18.
Cassie came to me looking for help in dealing
with and understanding, her alcoholic and emotionally abusive mother, and her
passive father. She had been in therapy for approximately six months, when in
the middle of a neurotic transference reaction, she brought up a dream in which
the theme was a co-worker violating her "turf" and images of "sharks
with teeth ripping her apart." Cassie had been struggling in previous sessions
with three major issues. First, she was struggling with homosexual fears. Secondly,
she was struggling with the feeling that she couldn't hide anything from me. She
said, "I feel over exposed and vulnerable. Like you see me without my clothes
on." And the third issue Cassie was struggling with was summed up when she
stated, "I feel pressured to talk about all my inner feelings. I just feel
very vulnerable, that's all." The sexual abuse secret that Cassie was living
with, was that she suspected her mother sexually molested her on several occasions
when she was around four or five, while intoxicated.
On a
counter transference level, my initial urge was to know more about Cassie's secrets
and fears. As I became aware of these feelings, I realized that if I pursued this
line of questions, I would be violating her boundaries. By giving Cassie time
to understand the context of her past and the nature of transferences, she was
able to come up with her own interpretation of her feelings and I was able to
avoid violating her boundaries, by not imposing my ideas upon her.
I
found I must be willing to deal directly with Cassie's issues, by slowing down
and accepting her revelations and feelings calmly, and at her pace.
Focusing
too much on the details and not on the issues, could have left Cassie feeling
exploited and re-victimized.
Dr Westin wrote in the article
"Countertransference Phenomena and Personality Pathology in Clinical Practice:
An Empirical Investigation" 'The broadband measure of countertransference
processes can turn clinicians' experiences into definable interpersonal patterns,
allowing clinicians who normally attend to countertransference phenomena to hone
and systematize their self-reflections.'
I find to minimize
my countertransference; a Losses and Gains exercise is helpful for me.
I asked myself, what loss issue does Cassie's molestation by her mother, trigger
for me? For example, I have a loss issue of my father dieing of stomach cancer
when I was ten. Cassie's negative feelings regarding her mother triggers my abandonment
issues regarding my father. To resolve or release this issue, I then ask what
was the long term gain from that loss. For example, my self talk includes; even
though my father died, I became a much more independent person because of it.
What loss issue does a sexually abused client trigger for you? What is a gain
that has resulted from that loss?
As you are aware, peer consultation
and discussions with colleagues can help mental health workers regain the necessary
professional perspective.
On this track we have just reviewed
countertransference and the use of Losses and Gains exercise.
On
the next track, we will begin to look at the first two parts of the Healing Cycle
for those living with the secrets of childhood sexual abuse of exposing the wound
and re-experiencing the trauma.
QUESTION
12
What is the common concept in the narrow and broad definitions of
countertransference? To select and enter your answer go to Answer
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